讀Henri Nouwen 的" Wounded Healer"，讀到一段很有意思的文字，節錄如下：

"... when one has the courage to enter where life is experienced as most unique and most private, one touches the soul of the community. The man who has spent many hours trying to understand, feel, and clarify the alienation and confusion of one of his fellow men might well be the best equipped to speak to the needs of the man, because all men are one at the wellspring of pain and joy.

"This is what Carl Rogers pointed out when he wrote, 'I have ---found that the very feeling which has seemed to me most private, most personal and hence most incomprehensible by others, has turned out to be an expression for which there is a resonance in many other people. It has led me to believe that what is most personal and unique in each one of us is probably the very element which would, if it were shared or expressed, speak most deeply to others... '